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Introduction
Some days you might think of yourself: “I give up.” When you go into a tight spot, and everything goes against you until it seems you can’t hold on for another minute, never give up because that’s where and when the tide will turn.”
Deal with your problems. Some days are dark. Some days are light and full of motivation. Some days are just routine.
You’re a small business or blog because you didn’t get the expected or wanted results.
You feel better about yourself.
Dating because you don’t seem to find the right person, or you might have a suitable date at all.
Ending in such situations is a natural part of making optimistic life changes.
But what you do when you feel like giving up will control a lot about where your life will go.
Take Advantage Of Realistic Expectations.
That was very important to me.
Take advantage of realistic expectations by listening to ads that promise you quick results. Not by listening to fastidiousness – from the individuals around you or yourself – that do not allow mistakes or failures.
Take advantage of this by listening to people who have already gone where you want to go.
Listen to people who know what works and how you’ll stumble and fail along the way and can tell you how long your journey might take.
Maybe you won’t get a precise scheme. But things people can tell you in person or through books and blogs can be great guidelines.
Remind Yourself Why You Do This.
It’s easy to lose the big image in full ordinary life.
But if you want to give up, try reconnecting with why you’re doing what you’re doing.
maybe to:
Support and keep your domestic safe.
Live healthier and lengthier so you can watch your kids grow up.
Watch the world and explore new things.
Write your answers.
Then, when you feel like giving up, drag that piece of paper with the most important reason (reasons) you have. It often helps.
Remember: It’s Darkest Before Dawn.
This thought helped me hold on when I felt things were complicated, and I felt like giving up and coming home. because I found it fitting.
Something always happened when things seemed to be at the lowest point with my blog and my work, dating life, or motivation in life in general.
Maybe often because I was at that low point forced me to change how I do things.
But maybe also because life appears to have some balance if it continues to move frontward. If you keep winning action instead of giving up and doing nothing, something decent will always happen.
I was seeing this repeat strengthened my faith in taking action and continuing even under challenging days or weeks.
It brings some ease even when things look dark.
Reconnect To The Basics.
The only thing that has helped me simplify and reconnect with the basics is when I encounter a more extended stability point or rough patch.
It’s easy to overwhelm all the information available about any change you can make in life.
It can lead to confusion and trying to do many things simultaneously.
In those situations, it was helpful to me to simplify.
To focus only on a few of the things I have learned that are the basics in this area of life. To recover my social skills, these things were, for example, to preserve a positive attitude and carry a relationship.
Learn More And Correct The Path.
Reconnecting to basics often works well. But occasionally, during a rough patch or when I feel stuck, it would have been helpful to change course a little bit instead.
To inspect how things are done, the results they bring and compare them to the way people who preceded me did things.
To be honest with me and admit that maybe something or two or small parts of what I don’t work well.
Replace these things for a while – based on what others have done in the past – and see if it works best.
Even though it means I have to get out of my comfort zone.
Tell Yourself: For Today Only!
That’s a little phrase I got from brian Tracy, which I often use when I have a terrible day with a new habit.
By expressing myself that I have to do it today, I get two significant benefits:
I am free from the mental burden of the past times when I have done so and the future times when I will do so. Thus, the task becomes much lighter and internal resistance disappears.
It also reminds me that the period I invest in changing habits is not the rest of my life. After 30 days or so, the pattern will be mostly automatic, so it’s not something I have to do at willpower for the next few years or decades.
And guess what, when tomorrow comes, I’ll perhaps have a good day again with less confrontation, and I’ll probably feel like doing the job again.
Connect With The People Around You To Get Them Out (And Reload Your Motives).
I found that when obstacles seem intractable or I don’t have the energy to face another obstacle, one of the things that can help a lot is opening up to them.
To talk to my wife, friend or father about it. To vent, to know things myself while the other person listens. And to get some experience-based and experience-based advice when I need it.
It renews my energy and motivation.
If you’re having trouble finding someone to open up to at this time — or people in your life are having difficulty understanding you or helping you meet the current challenge — you can, for example, search for supporting Facebook groups or other groups online.
Similarly, Dating platforms provide an opportunity to connect with people who are a good match for you. There are BBW dating sites for curvy females, casual dating sites for those seeking extramarital affairs, dating sites for LGBT communities, etc. This way, you can easily find someone who shares your preferences and can understand you without any judgment.
Look Back And Celebrate How Far You Have Reached.
The things I’ve learned, the steps I’ve taken and the obstacles I’ve overcome.
Think of those things when you feel like giving up. Then, rise and celebrate what you have done so far to move towards your goal. Appreciate yourself for the effort you’ve made.
It will help you change your point of view to a more optimistic perspective again and find a new step you can take to keep moving forward.
Just Cut Yourself Some Laxity And Take A Break.
Yes, you may feel like you want to give up. But in my experience, this may sometimes indicate that you need a break you deserve after you’ve done a lot of work or tried to stick to an overly optimistic time plan.
So when that occurs, listen to your body and mind.
Take a few hours or rest days. Rest, recover and forget everything about the task, project or anything you want to give up during that time.
When you want to give up on things. Take a break. This can change your feelings in a significant way and recharge your batteries.
